Thoughts

I have learned that I can’t fix things if I don’t know I am breaking them and that is not my problem.

People are mean. And no matter how much love I put out there. People will still be shitty.

I love Taking Back Sunday forever.

Grad School is weird and I am not sure what the hell I was thinking. 

I have been trying so hard not to bitch about this arctic weather but it is truly starting to get to me and I just need to wear flip-flops. 

I have the greatest friends ever. I am so thankful I have people who literally go through everything with me and know I will do the same for them. 

Love sucks.  Boys suck. Relationships Suck.

But I still love all of those things anyways.

I can’t do boring.

I have been getting all of my wisdom from Sex and the City lately and I am not even ashamed. 

I still miss him because I think he actually listened.

I can’t wait to wash my baby car and go for a drive with the windows down.

I am so freaked out about the future it makes me want to throw up. 

Ta-daaaa.

llbolek

1. Set your alarm and watch the sunrise. Don’t let the day fade without witnessing the first moment of wonder we get in this place.

2. Don’t downgrade your knowledge. If you know something, speak. If you understand something let people know. There is nothing humble about limiting others perceptions of you. Don’t be afraid to burn bright.

3. Tell the boy you love him. Tell the girl you love her. Kiss them passionately and without love, kiss them with love. Just kiss them.

4. Always choose to dance no matter who is offering. Always dance.

5. Listen to the music you love and turn it up when people tell you it’s rubbish. Let yourself bleed the lyrics, your bones need the rhythm.

6. Get passionate about the things that make your toes curl. Don’t let passion dwindle, it is the essence of life.

7. Always help, whenever you can. You’re hand could be the only one the person is offered.

8. Don’t be afraid of happiness.

9. Never let the weather dictate your day. Keep your plans even if it starts to rain, go to the beach anyway. There’s something beautiful about the ocean when it’s wracked with the fury of thunder.

10. Feel what you feel and don’t give a damn about how it affects others. Your emotions are valid, and they should be loud. If you want to scream, scream good. If you’re happy then have another scoop of ice cream.

11. Don’t mirror the negativity of others. No matter how easy it would be.

12. Don’t keep silent about the things that matter.

13. Love them anyway.

14. When a boy breaks your heart, burn his photo. Cleanse your soul of him, don’t let him infect your purpose.

15. Keep your strength even if you’re crumbling. It’s ok to cry, but it’s not ok to fall without getting back up.

16. If you break a boys heart, try and tread carefully over the shards of glass you left. Remember he is probably hurting but remember that what you did was right.

17. Go out with your mum. Have a coffee and talk to her. You love her, even if you don’t always believe it. You need to stay close to her.

18. It’s ok to be the listener sometimes. Your friends may need a shoulder, and it might do you good to hear from them. It will bring you closer.

19. Sometimes you will be the one who needs a shoulder. That does not make you weak, it makes you human.

20. Don’t follow the rules. Be good. Eat some ice cream and work out. Love everyone but no one. It’s always a good time to sing the wrong lyrics to that song on the radio. Catch a shooting star and feel raindrops on your skin. Read a book in a day, just go and live. Do whatever damn thing brings light into your eyes and fire in your veins.

20 pieces of advice for humans, W.Z (via llbolek)