Grandma’s Pea Soup #daymade (Taken with instagram)
Favorite shirt of all time. #tbsrobots (Taken with instagram)
Happy Sweet 16 to my baby sister. (Taken with instagram)
We are being so productive (Taken with instagram)
New Tattoo @adamdamnlazzara @thejohnnolan (Taken with instagram)
Home and John Mayer drive (Taken with instagram)
The greatest irony of life is loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right and finding out you love someone after that person walks out from your life.
Sometimes you think you’re already over a person but when you see them smile at you, you’ll suddenly realize that you’re just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again.
For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much you love the person.
Most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love; love is always present. It’s just that one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little.
As we all know, the heart is the center of the body, but it beats on the left. Maybe that’s the reason why the heart is not always right. Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love only to discover that for them, we are just for past times, while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger.
Here’s a piece of advice: let go when you’re hurting too much, give up when love isn’t enough and move on when things are not like before. There is someone out there who will love you even more, surely then, you will know true love.
Lately, I have heard three really good pieces of advice from people that have really been helping me try and change my outlook on things. While I have heard them before, I haven’t ever really taken the time to believe them and live them.
“someone who can’t handle you at your worst, doesn’t deserve you at your best.”
Those who have spent any sort of time with me in the past year have definitely witnessed me at my worst. Luckily, I have incredible people in my life who have been so supportive and understanding through it all. Unfortunately, I have learned some people don’t want to deal with it. Some people don’t care. Some people have seen a side of me I am not proud of, but don’t really care to find out who I really am. I tried explaining to my aunt ..”I don’t care as much if someone doesn’t like me for me just being myself. but it’s the fact he has no idea who I actually am.” Which led me to my second piece of advice..
“You have two choices. And that’s it. You can either get over it and move on or you can spend your time upset and being sad about it.”
This is so true. And simple. And obvious. And so incredibly hard to do. especially for someone like me who spends 98 % of my day worrying about things I can’t control. I have also learned I am a “fixer” . I am constantly trying to fix things. And when I can’t, it really takes a lot out of me. Somehow, Somewhere, I have to find it inside of me to get over it and let go. and realize sometimes we make mistakes and sometimes things are broken, but regardless I have to move on.
“You get to a certain age where you prepare yourself for happiness, sometimes you never remember to actually get happy.”
I am not there yet. I don’t think. I haven’t remembered to actually get happy. But I am working on it. And for now, that’s all I can do.
Happening every 5 seconds. And making me want to scream. Thank you country. (Taken with instagram)
